Fourteen years ago I started a thread on how horrible my disfellowshipped cousin was treated after his mom passed away and the terrible actions on the part of the elders at the funeral home.
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Horrible conduct by congregation Elders at my cousin's funeral.............
Well, here we are 14 years later, and things haven't changed!
My aunt ( who is my disfellowshipped cousin's grandmother ) was placed in home hospice care. The nurse told her daughters ( who are Jehovah's Witnesses and live with their mother ) that their mom probably has 2 days left to live and that they should call the immediate family.
My disfellowshipped cousin and his sister show up in the early morning. My aunt passes away within hours. I show up and see both of them holding their grandmother's hand. I go home to pick up my wife.
While I'm driving home, a congregation elder is called to come to the home, to give a prayer and wait with the family for a nurse to show up and declare my aunt deceased.
The elder arrives at the home and finds my disfellowshipped cousin in the house. He gets so bent out shape and uncomfortable, that he asks that my disfellowshipped cousin be removed from the house. One daughter says he can stay and the other daughter says he should leave. My disfellowshipped cousin decides to leave, since he is ready to punch and injure the elder. His sister screams at the elder that he should be the one leaving, since he is so uncomfortable. She tells the elder that she is disgusted to hear him ask her brother to leave while they are grieving for their grandmother. The elder doesn't care, nor offers an apology for his behavior.
Only in the land of Jehovah's Witnesses will you find this disgusting and heartless behavior!